From macho to the Sanchez – typical male (wrong) behavior after a breakup when we are leaving men to transform we us almost always by the tough guy”to the absolute Sanchez. “Our hard shell past is suddenly, all coolness is blown away, and what’s left is a pile of misery, which begs and pleads, that they” should give us but please one more chance. If you want to win back his ex-girlfriend, that is precisely the wrong way! The main error is to believe that one (s) was abandoned because the wife no longer loves him. Actually, this is the reason for the divorce but only in very few cases. Much more it is usually so that the man in the course of the relationship simply has lost attractiveness (he has to let go and invested too little in the relationship.), and the woman therefore eventually separates from him. This is usually rather to be understood as as a really final separation as a warning signal. The woman tried to call attention to the fact that man, that he’s through Behavior during the course of the relationship has lost a large part of its appeal, and craves, he works in, and again becomes the man, in which she once fell.
So what happens now, when in desperation, the man starts to follow the woman and to harass them: he destroyed in his ExPartnerin his attractiveness and thus its appeal further. In plain language, this means that he is exactly the opposite of what actually wanted to reach his ex with the separation. And accordingly achieved he recover naturally also the opposite of what he actually wants his ExFreundin namely. It sounds certainly illogical at first glance, but if you try to put oneself in the position of ex one should realize pretty quickly that under no circumstances anything can get exactly this behavior. .
| April 24th, 2025 | Posted in General |